The Butterfly Effect of Service | Volunteers Give More than Time

Written by Vanessa Barker, Community Engagement Director

While we typically think of volunteering as solely giving time, it’s so much more than that. We live in a society that is constantly on the go with full agendas and busy schedules. Despite this current way of life, volunteers make the time to pour their hearts into the agency.

Recently my personal perspective of time has changed significantly. Life changes have made me realize and understand on a deeper level, that time truly is the most precious gift. While simultaneously balancing the celebration of new life as a mom, but also feeling grief with the loss of a loved one, I’ve learned that how we spend our time matters.

Interestingly enough, the symbol of New Friends New Life is a butterfly. The butterfly is known to symbolize change and transformation. During my time at New Friends New Life and working with the volunteer program, I’ve witnessed the Butterfly Effect through service. The butterfly effect is a concept that explains how small changes can have big impacts.

I’ve learned that no act of kindness or service is too small; each encounter has a significant impact.

As volunteers take their initial tour and undergo training, they learn that each role has a purpose. For example, childcare. While it may seem like the volunteer shift is just to provide care for our members’ children, it’s far more impactful. It allows our members to heal while also providing them with a sense of peace and knowing their child is in a safe space. This removes a barrier that can have a generational impact.

Another example would be assisting with the clothing closet. On the surface, it may present itself as solely organizing, but it creates a dignified space for members to feel empowered. With that additional boost in confidence, members have proudly worn their new outfit into an interview leading to a new job. Granted, they’ve utilized the skillset from the programs on-site, but this provides a feeling of empowerment.

Whether you give your time directly to our members or indirectly through in-kind support, know that your time matters. Your time could turn someone’s day around. Your time may allow someone to feel seen and valued. Your time could help break down someone’s barriers and encourage them to thrive in a new way. So please know that despite the busyness of life, even if you give just a small amount of time to our members, your time can make a lifetime impact on someone else. You’re giving your time, but more importantly, you’re giving your heart.

To volunteer at New Friends New Life, visit: www.newfriendsnewlife.org/volunteer. We are excited to make a difference with you!